So my woman has been going to the gym, controlling what she eats, and losing weight (about 60 pounds or so) after having two of our children in about a year.  I've been going to the gym as well, when I can, because I'm not getting any younger, and I miss the feeling of being fit and ready for action.  However, I'm not getting anywhere near the results I got even three years ago when I got off my duff after being hit by a car.  I'm really starting to wonder what fifty is going to feel like if I already feel forty.